Office communication rules
Do not criticize or blame, do not complain, do not attack, do not preach
Criticism, blame, complain, attack butchers are to communicate, will only make things worse.
I in no way out of abusive
Wounding insults, that is, the so-called
Speak out
In particular, the merit of being honest and tell you the feelings of the heart.
Mutual respect
Only by giving the other party can communicate respect, if they do not respect you, you have to request the appropriate respect for each other, it will be difficult to communicate.
Do not emotional communication, in particular, can not make a decision
Emotional communication is often no good words, not only also unknown stresses, particularly in the mood, it is easy to impulsive and irrational, such as: noise of the busy husband and wife, parents and children of the enemies, the long-standing confrontation between the subordinate supervisors. . . In particular, it is not able to make emotional feelings, impulses of the "Decision", which makes it easy for things irreversible, it is regret!
Rational communication, non-rational not to communicate
Not a rational argument's sake only and will not have results, not good results, so that such communication will not help.
Waiting for a turn for the better
If there is no turning point, it is necessary to wait, anxious only benefits administration silk confused, of course, do not wait for the results of space will fall from the world, or go to your own efforts, but not necessarily be the result of the efforts, or the cart before the horse, but sleep, you will have nothing.
Patience
The only essential is to wait patiently, there must be a way.
Intelligent
Smart it is not persistent, but also to the soul-fu.
Admit that I am wrong
Admit that I am wrong is the communication of disinfectants, can be thawed to improve communication and transformation of the problem sentence: I was wrong! How many people write-off of the hatred, old and new, resolve the deadlock could not open many years, people suddenly see the light, lay down their arms and re-face of their own to begin to rethink life, and even who I am?? In this vast universe flood, the people are most concerned about is the "I", if someone does not respect me, and to suppress me, bully me or insult me, even if it is as close as father and son are likely to enemies, a little partial tears, what is still running away from home, death to you all uncommon to see examples of miles!
That I am sorry!
That I am sorry, I really do not represent what a big mistake, or the rationale for the murderous, but a softener, so that finally things have "room" of the room, and even can create a "paradise." In fact, sometimes you are really wrong, refuses to admit the fault is a wrong thing.
Let a miracle happened
Today, each is willing to admit their own, that is, for himself and his family created the heaven and miracles and the impossible possible.
Love
Everything is love, love is the greatest therapists.
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